the problem is that this isn't really a 'war' involving one side against the other or a couple of sides facing another. Terrorism isn't military, it's criminal (at least in terms of Western Terrorism) Lots of big guns aren't going to win this, and neither are the brave efforts of everyone fighting out there (kudos to the troops for sticking with it despite the unfair levelles of critisism against them) because this is against unreasonable nutters. "I blow you up, i get eternal bliss" How can you argue against that?
military vs. police problem is parsing of words. foreign nationals killing 3,000 people in a single day's coordinated attack, becomes a military issue - for better or worse. but what you said has deeper implications than what you describe. (though you may already understand and agree with): any nation's military force is nothing more than blunt force. (the us combined forces are getting better though, in tying together all intelligence and armed services - potentially at the peril of civil liberties.) police work, on the other hand, is often very sophisticated, refined, granular, and controlled.
but the problem is actually different. (i would argue.) it's not an issue of "is it a military or police problem". terrorism, by itself, is not intrinsically a police issue. the us military is *quite* prepared and effective against
state-sponsored terrorism. an adjective that drastically alters the picture. why? because any nation-state can
lose it's statehood quite easily by acting badly. just as iraq did. (even though they arguably had nothing to do with the 9/11 attacks, and regardless of how things are now. one thing is clear:
the nation-state of iraq lost everything that ever resembled "the nation-state of iraq".) nations can be bombed and mowed over through brute force and technical advantage, even for the antics of a few terrorists they funded. loose associations of terrorists of multiple nations, on the other hand, cannot be bombed.
(one could argue - correctly probably, that 9/11 *was* state-sponsored terrorism, just sponsored by multiple states, many of them strategic allies.)
so that's where the police come in. although i don't like some of the things going on, i do agree that the military *can*,
if done right, tamp down terrorist activity to the level of "background noise" for the police to (more effectively) deal with.
The problem with that thought process is that people don't seem to understand the reality of the threat. I personally could not make it through even one of them without turning away and nearly losing my lunch... but perhaps people need to take another look over the various videos we've been sent of not just the Arabs, but our own people - not even soldiers, but news reporters, people on vacations, etc. - getting their heads *sawed* off.
demonizing the enemy as a faceless, evil villain, will not win anything. jinghoistic pride and rhetoric is a fantastic hinderance. all either does is pump up the cannon fodder (and potential future cannon fodder back home), but leaders high and low know it for what it is. (i am accusing you of neither - just using your quote as a basis for more general statements.) both are also precisely the mechanisms used and manipulated to convince middle-class islamic kids to blow themselves up for allah.
so, using the hard, sober lens of empathy (not sympathy; empathy), we can see that the enemy does *not* "hate our freedoms". we are *losing* our freedoms, precisely because of the grossly distorted paranoia over those "freedom haters". (those who would trade freedom for safety deserve neither, etc.) while the individual suicide bombers may be way past reason, the planners are very calculating and manipulative. and the ends they are trying to achieve, as they have stated repeatedly but no one seems to hear, is purging the infidel from their "homeland". period. (not a nice objective, but still far from "because they hate our freedom".) pakastan, qatar, saudia arabia - our "alllies" all have direct, well-documented ties to funding terrorist organizations, as some reported of in the 9/11 report. simply put, they want us out. but it's not that simple (or attacks would stop if we just left): they also want israel out, and other geopolitical complexities. so this is not a call to just up and leave, far from it. it's simply a call for sobriety.
btw, many of the beheading videos from terrorists are fake. trust me - or not, actually it's pretty clear to anyone with even a passing understanding of mammalian physiology, if you get ahold of them (the videos, not the mammals). they probably did come from the terrorists (in spite of what some conspiracy theorists say), and they may have actually killed whatever hostage they had. but in many cases the "body" who's "head is removed" was already either dead and stiff, or a dummy. this is an argument for nothing (not leniency, not forgiveness, not more or less troops, not more or less outcry. just a call for sobriety and critical analysis.)
i highly encourage every one to rent and watch an engaging interview with robert s. macnamera, "the fog of war". he has writings which go into more detail (he is a fascinating man and brilliant strategist), but these are good insights for civvies and should be required watching by all us citizens.
edit: fixed unclosed bold tags (removed bold altogether)